On a recent Saturday afternoon, I found myself on the patio drilling holes around the sides of a new toilet plunger to reduce resistance in my new camp-style washing machine–a 5-gallon Home Depot bucket with lid. I'd committed to washing flat diapers for my 20-month-old son for one week, by hand.
Kim Rosas of DirtyDiaperLaundry.com was inspired by a recent news story about parents attempting to reuse disposable diapers to save money, and wondered why they weren't just using cloth, so she posed a challenge to her blog readers: For one week, participants of the challenge would hand wash and hang dry flat diapers, living as if no washer or dryer were available. Flats, a simple one-layer sheet of Birdseye cotton, wash easily and dry quickly. Over the diapers, any commercially available diaper cover would do, but participants were limited to just 5 in rotation for frugality, whether that be plastic pants from Target or a fancier cover from a cloth diaper supplier between $10 and $16 each–covers that, even with heavy machine washing, can diaper multiple kids from birth to potty training.
I emailed Kim and signed up with very little thought, but not without knowledge–I've been cloth diapering since 2006.
Cloth moms like big butts and we can't deny, collecting new ones in funky patterns and delicious colors every chance we get; we also know it's not for everyone. The purpose of the Flats Challenge was not to covert people who can't/won't cloth diaper, but to prove (see the challenge results) that it's possible to diaper on the cheap (between $50 and $100 for enough diapers for full time use) if the worst happens and laundering facilities are unavailable.
As cloth has exploded in popularity, there's grown a judgment of elitism associated with this diapering method, as premium brands available mostly online beg nearly $20 apiece. Stacie Walker, owner of Louisville's Fannies Diaper Service, would love families to understand that "cloth diapering is neither 'hippie' nor 'elitist'. In fact, it's the most non-elitist parenting choice I've made, because disposables are just too expensive for our family budget." The sticker price of cloth creates an illusion that suggests cloth diapering is improbable for most families, requiring a large investment to get started. Admittedly, a diaper stash can cost upwards of $500, but families using disposables will spend between $1,000 to $2,000 MORE from birth to potty training–money that could pay utility bills or credit card debt.
Walker continued, "You can buy or make a decent stash of cloth diapers and wipes for a small fraction [of the price of disposables], and they will last through multiple children." When teaching her free diapering workshop on the 3rd Saturday of each month at Babyology (an informational class with zero sales), she reminds expectant parents that while cloth seems like a big investment, the diapers make good shower gifts. "Part time cloth diapering is a great option."
On why she created the Flats Challenge, Rosas said, "After I read the article citing multiple cases of families reusing and drying out disposables, I kept thinking, 'How can a family with no washer or dryer be encouraged to use cloth diapers?'" Many of the modern cloth diapers contain thick materials that would be next to impossible to wash by hand. Even cotton prefold diapers can take too long to hang dry indoors. Cotton flats' single layer clean easily and dry quickly. "I sent an email to 600+ members of my blogging network. The response was immediate and enthusiastic. I knew I had something then and started planning right away."
Rosas' expectations were conservative, believing 5-10 bloggers might join in the challenge, but 413 signed up to participate. Over 50 bloggers were writing about the experience daily, and thousands followed their progress.
Excellent article
Thank you for writing this excellent article! I have been cloth diapering my fourth baby since she was born 18 1/2 months ago. I wish I had learned about cloth diapers sooner! I did not participate in the flats challenge because I heard about it too late, but plan on trying flats/handwashing out anyway. I hope to someday be involved in educating my community about cloth diapering and I think that having experience w/ handwashing will help lend more credence to my teaching. I firmly believe that cloth diapering is something all parents - no matter what their financial situation - should learn about. If they don't choose to use cloth, fine - but education never hurts! Every parent should at least know his/her options.
there is a way.
I had been thinking about cloth diapering my son for a few weeks before the flats challenge came out. I had no idea how I was ever going to be able to afford them, as we are living on a single income, and not having a washer/dryer kept me from getting them before when we both had jobs. (I am the one that works now) Buying diapers has been a really heavy burden for us, but we have never reused them! When I heard of the flats challenge, though, a light went off in my head. This is what I need to do. And I was determined to make it work!! After carefully studying products and waiting for sales, I bought 2doz flats, snappi and detergent from amazon for $40. Then I bought 4 Thirsties for $50. But I never spent any money out of pocket. How I did it was I used Amazon gift cards that I got from Swagbucks and Zoombucks, I used Slicethepie to get $20 in paypal, then I saved my pampers points to get $10 diapers.com gift card and waited for them to have a $10 sale I could use on the covers. I won $10 with my MIL's money when she took me to a casino. Lol! This system is working very well for us and I don't have to stress out over how much it costs to change a wet diaper anymore! Let me tell you though, it is a lot more work getting something for free than it is to just buy it.
Until there are more daycares
Until there are more daycares that will accept anything but plastic diapers, the working poor will continue to be shut out. Sadly until these policies are changed I don't see cloth being able to be mainstream.
There's always a way.
I know many moms who cloth diaper at home and still provide disposables for their daycare providers, which still drastically cuts the price of diapering. Moms also have the option to teach daycare providers how to use cloth, and to urge policy changes. Cloth diapering doesn't require dunking and wet pails anymore! Teach your daycare provider! There's no need to wait for someone else to change policies. Moms need to take charge and stop shutting themselves out. We're not victims. This is about empowerment! About taking charge and keeping the money we work hard for, and investing it in our families, rather than continuing to throw it away on very expensive disposable products.
Wonderful!
Thank you for writing about the challenge. It's amazing how many people are surprised at how easy cloth diapering can be. There is a learning curve, but once you figure out your routine it can be a breeze. I LOVE that I don't have to remember to pick up a package of diapers at the store. When I'm running low, I throw in a load of laundry. Fluffy buns!!
Inspiring!
Editing
Good Lord, do you not have an editor? The typos/errors in this article are numerous and unprofessional.
rude
Good lord, do you not have manners? There are much more respectful ways to let an author know that there are errors in their article. Apparently, you did not read for content, but only to find errors and pass judgment. How unprofessional of you.
good lord, do you have a
good lord, do you have a life?
Editing
Yes, I do have an editor; however, I am responsible for editing my work. I did find some problems during my quality check after the article posted this morning, and worked to resolve them as quickly as possible as my son was clinging to me and nursing, which happens to be difficult.
If you would like to comment on the content of the article, you would be most welcome to do so.
I totally understand how easy
I totally understand how easy it is to submit a typo filled piece of work while nursing a baby. At least we have an excuse :-)
Yes.
And, an edit option. :)